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How To Ask For Her Number

May 27, 2015 by Justin Stenstrom Leave a Comment

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So you’ve just met a drop-dead gorgeous and mind-blowingly SEXY woman on the street…

You approached her.

You two connected on so many levels…

And now you want to get her number so you can see her again and make sweet, passionate love!

But how do you do it?

What do you say so that she gives you her digits?

Do you just ask her “Hey can you please give me your number, so we can maybe go on a date sometime?”

Yeah, if you want her to laugh at you and call you a complete chode…

Saying anything remotely close to this is bound to land you in the “Let’s just be friends You’re-A-Pussy Zone.”

Saying something like this just makes you seem so needy and unsure of yourself. It also comes out of nowhere, and doesn’t really make any sense for her to give you her number. You want to have a good reason for getting her number, not just asking for it weakly, and hoping that she’ll say “yes.”

There are 3 basic and very effective ways of getting her number.

Here they are:

Number 1

Don’t ask for her number, but instead suggest or even confidently “tell” her to give you her number.

This of course comes after having a good conversation, and making a good connection with her.

So after talking about something for a few minutes, and sharing some commonalities about each other, go for the number close. Say something like “It was great to meet you Julie. We definitely have to grab a drink soon. Here, let me grab your number, and I’ll text you mine.” Then just whip out your phone, and collect her number as you say this last bit. And then of course text her yours.

Number 2

Another easy thing to do, which is similar to the above method, is to not “ask” her to give you her number, but to ASSUME she will give you her number.

So instead, ask her what her number is or just ask her if she has a number.

So say something like “It’s so cool that we met Julie, what’s your number? I’ll text you so we can make plans, and go out sometime.” Or something like “It was really great meeting you Julie, do you have a number? We definitely should grab drinks sometime.” She will of course have one as EVERYONE does (and will give it to you if everything else before went well).

Again just pull out your phone, and assume she is going to give it to you. This is so much more effective than asking her if you can have her number because it’s so much more confident, and also seems more natural.

Number 3

The third easy way to collect a woman’s number is to talk about something that you both like to do.

Say it’s rollerblading, or bowling, or something like that.

While you’re talking about doing this, say something like “We so have to go rollerblading ASAP. What’s the best way to get a hold of you, so we can set something up? Do you text at all?” (Of course she texts.)

And again pull out your phone, and collect her number. This is very effective, because you are setting something tangible up, and it gives you a great reason for “asking” for her number.

So next time you want to get a woman’s number, just use one of these simple and effective methods, and thank me later…

Now go out there and start getting some digits!

Also, as far as what to say after you get a woman’s number, check out these top texting tips today and learn where to take things from here.

 

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About Justin Stenstrom

Justin Stenstrom is an alternative medicine expert, speaker, and bestselling author of Elite Mind. He is the Editor-in-Chief of EliteManMagazine.com, the founder of Elite Life Nutrition, and the host of the Elite Man Podcast, where he interviews some of the best self-help experts in the world, including guests like Robert Greene, Grant Cardone, Dr. John Gray, Bas Rutten, Anthony William, Dorian Yates and many others. Once anxious, insecure, depressed, and unhappy, Justin’s overcome many of life’s greatest obstacles and loves nothing more than helping others do the same! For a complete bio on Justin click here.

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