The first date is always a little nerve-racking. It’s like playing a high-stakes poker game against Doyle Brunson. There is a lot on the line, and it’s nearly impossible to figure out how to read them. There is a lot of posturing, calculating, and attempts at figuring out what they are thinking and feeling.
Does she think I’m cute? Did I just say something stupid? Why didn’t she laugh at that…that was funny, wasn’t it? These are all thoughts that might bounce around in a guy’s head during the date. He will certainly be thinking about what she’s thinking of him.
On the flip-side, a woman will be doing exactly the same thing. Does he think I’m hot? Why doesn’t he show it? Is my hair messed up? Is he having a good time? These are all questions that might jump around a women’s mind on that initial engagement.
So don’t worry guys, you are not the only one worried about how you are doing. The good news is, she is too!
But wouldn’t it be a little easier if you just had some sort of idea about what she thought of you? Perhaps there were some clues that she was giving off that were actually tipping her hand (in poker terms of course). Well, as it turns out, there is.
There are a number of things that women will do which you can use as a cue for whether or not they are “digging” you or not. Today, I’m giving you 4 of the easiest tips to look out for.
With that said, take these tips with a grain of salt. They should be used as a way to sort of determine if what you are doing is working (in which case keep doing it), or if not (in which case you should probably try something else).
1. Laughing- If a woman is laughing frequently or whenever you or even she tells some sort of story or makes a joke; that is a great sign. It means she is having a great time with you!
2. Smiling- Similarly, if a woman smiles a lot she is very blatantly showing you that she is having fun, and is most definitely into you. So keep doing whatever you are doing!
3. Asks Questions- If a woman asks you questions and seems to show even a small amount of interest in the answers, this is a great sign. She wants to know more about you and is interested in you! If a woman is disinterested, she will not be genuinely asking you anything.
4. Positions Herself Closer- When we first meet up with our date, there is almost always some nervous, unsure energy in the beginning. It lasts a little while until a woman gets comfortable with you. When she gets comfortable and perhaps even attracted to you, she will get closer to you. Look out for this, as this is usually the best demonstration of her true feelings of you!
So next time you go on a date, and you are wondering if you are doing well, and what she may be feeling, use these 4 tips. They can help reveal what she is really thinking and cue you in on her feelings. Just remember, don’t get caught up on yourself if she doesn’t show any signs of being into you. Most times, you just have to wait a little longer and keep up your solid game. Eventually, if you’re doing things right, a woman will give in and show you her cards (in poker terms of course). And usually, this is where you get lucky!