Pre-Selection

Pre-selection is used in game as a way of making you appear more attractive to women. In the last article we learned what social proof was. Social proof, once again, is the phenomenon of one or more people doing something, and just by doing it, thereby make other people want to do that thing as well. It can be used in game as well to make women perceive you as more attractive. Being more social and having others around gives you great social proof; especially if those people around you are having a great time and laughing with you. Well, pre-selection is actually a subset of social proof. In fact it is social proof, the only distinction between the two is that pre-selection is social proof, but with women involved.

So if you were at the bar for example and you were talking to a bunch of people and making them laugh and have a good time, this would be considered social proof. If this same group of people however consisted specifically of women, then this would now be considered pre-selection. Pre-selection is the absolute best form of social proof in game. Surrounding yourself with quality women is perhaps the most effective thing you could do to increase your attractiveness to other women. It has been scientifically proven that women find men who have other women around them more attractive. This most likely has an evolutionary basis behind it; as this is an easy way for women to tell if a man is a quality guy or not. If other women are around him, and having a good time with him, then he is must be a pretty good guy. If he were not, then why would all of these women be having fun with him? The answer is they wouldn’t be. It’s that simple. Pre-selection is so important because it’s a great tool for women to use to tell if a guy has great quality or not.

If you want to easily make yourself appear to be more attractive to women, simply surround yourself with other women. It’s a great and pretty easy technique you can use right away. Again pre-selection is social proof, so the techniques of using it in game are generally the same. If you are out at night, say at the bar, start talking to more women! Talking to the bouncer is alright and being friendly to the manager named “Bob” is good for social proof, but getting pre-selection, the much more important phenomenon of the two, can only be done when you talk to women. There are a few things you can do right away to get more pre-selection into your life:

Number 1- Start talking to the female staff when you go out to the bar. Get their names, find out a couple of things about them, and tip them well. Especially if this is a place you like to frequently go. Get in good with the female bartenders and staff, and become as friendly as possible with them. Especially if they are quality women, as other women that go there will notice you having a good time with them and think higher of you right away.

Number 2- Approaching women is the next and most obvious thing to start doing! When you are out, start talking to more and more women. You can warm up by talking to a few of the guys at the bar, but after that talk to as many women as possible, and again befriend them. Grab their name, and a few details about them, and then either continue talking to them, or move on to talking to other women. The beauty of this is that other women will see you talking to these women and having a good time with them, and they will want to talk to you too. If a group of women wants nothing to do with you, or “rejects” you, just simply play it off cool, and don’t get upset. After all, none of the other women around will be able to tell what you or her were saying, so if you can simply exit without acting like you were “rejected,” you will still come across as having that pre-selection, if only for a brief moment. Give her, or them (if it’s a group of women) a smile, and say “Okay, it was great to meet you.” and move on.

Number 3- Go out with female friends when you go to the bar or club. So instead of going around and approaching women, bring them with you. Just remember to make it clear that you are there just as friends, so that you don’t get their hopes up if you are not interested in them in a sexual way. If you go with women out to the bar, other women there will automatically see you as a much more attractive guy than you would be if you went their alone or with another guy friend. It’s often true that women make the best wingmen. Now you know why.

Number 4- Get pictures of you with other women online. Whether it’s on a dating website like Plenty of Fish or Match.com, or whether it’s simply on Facebook; having pictures of you around other women is very important. “A picture is worth a thousand words” as they say. And you surrounding yourself with quality women speaks a thousand great words about you. This will make you so much more appealing to the women checking your profile out.