Let’s face it, it can be really tough to talk to women sometimes.
We run out of shit to say.
We can’t think fast enough.
We can’t find the right words to be funny or cool.
It sometimes sucks. Really sucks!
But today I want to help you fix this problem.
In fact, I want to show you exactly how to make ALL your conversations fucking awesome…
I heard somewhere once that the person people like to listen to most in a conversation is themselves. They make the best conversationalists.
It’s true, people love to hear themselves talk, and love talking to people who will listen.
This is even truer with women, who are social creatures by nature. So to have a great conversation with women, simply listen and let them speak. There really is no need to try to get your point in if she is freely talking and you two are connecting. Let her do this, and you will be building rapport, and making her believe that you are such a great conversationalist, simply by allowing her to do all the conversing.
That’s probably the biggest mistake guys make. They don’t really listen and they think they have to say so much!
Don’t. Relax and let her talk when she’s talking. And actually LISTEN to what she’s saying.
Don’t think that you can just tune her out, and think about your face snuggled in between her two giant breasts. You have to pick up little clues that she sends you, and then you can ask about those things, and also try to relate them to yourself.
If you don’t, she will quickly realize that you’re not really listening, and the conversation will die out, and get awkward. Really stay engaged with her, and keep those ears open.
You also want to try to ask her open-ended questions, not just quick one word response questions that kill conversations.
Try to get her to really think and become involved in what you ask her. Ask her about things that are important to her. Try to draw emotion out of her responses. And give emotional responses to her with your questions.
Women will feed off your energy. If you have high-energy and are fun and entertaining with your responses she will also be animated and engaged in the conversation.
Some topics you may want to talk about initially can be: asking her where she’s from, what she’s doing in the place you two are in, what she did earlier that day, what she does for fun, what she does for work, and so many other topics like this. These types of subjects are great for getting her to open up to you and also for you to relate to her because they allow you to give your response back and share the same information with her.
Some things you definitely want to stay away from initially (and probably ever) are the obvious ones like politics, religion, and money – these ones never bring out a good response, unless she brings it up and you completely agree with her…which is probably going to be rare.
Keeping the conversation going is pretty easy, if you keep listening to her, and stay entertaining.
You want to tease her here and there, and throw in some edgy lines to show her that you are confident in what you say. I hate saying “just be yourself”, but it is okay to be yourself, if you normally are entertaining or funny.
Act with her as you would with your good friends; only try to listen a little more.
Joke around with her. Swear here and there, if you typically swear around your buddies. Call her “dude” or “man” or even “bro”, when you would normally say this to one of your guy friends. Girls like this and will usually laugh when you do this, or call you “dude” back.
By doing little things like this you take the pressure out of the conversation and you devalue it. Suddenly it is not you trying to talk to a beautiful woman who is out of your league, but you talking to one of your buddies who you chat with every day. It becomes second hand and women love this.
Rinse and repeat this process over and over again.
The more natural and comfortable you can be when talking to women, the better your success will be with them.
On a final note, try actively listening, having passion when you speak, and being relaxed as if you’re talking to your best friend the next time you start a conversation with a beautiful woman… Remember these tips and she’ll be falling for you fast!
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