If you think, even for a second that a woman you know likes you, she most definitely does! Always trust your instinct when it comes to this. It can be very hard to decipher through all her nonchalant games and stoic attitude toward you (it’s all part of the game, nobody said it was easy), whether or not she likes you. Trust me; I’ve thought this a million times. One minute I would think a woman loves me and the next I would be certain she hated me!
It’s frustrating, very frustrating for many guys. A woman seems to be very into you for a period of time, and then the next thing you know she seems completely disinterested. Like I said it’s all part of the game. The important thing to remember is that if she displays any signs of affection toward you, even once, she is interested. So no matter what she does before or thereafter, the fact will remain that she holds interest in you, and you must act on that.
It can be hard, almost like a roller-coaster, when trying to attract and date a woman you like. But knowing that she likes you, and knowing that she’s just going through that up and down cycle, like a roller-coaster, should assure you that all will be well in the end. You just have to maintain good game yourself and not let the bumpy ride affect you!
Women you just meet or women you’ve known for a while can be equally confusing to guys. And for women, it’s the same. Us guys can be absolutely puzzling, if not downright perplexing to a lot of women out there! In fact that’s why so many gossip magazines and talk shows dedicate their livelihood to figuring us out! Everywhere you look there is someone talking about “What guys really want” or “What men like or don’t like.” Unfortunately there isn’t as much good information for us good guys out there to take in. So I love filling in that void at times and helping out my fellow man when I get a chance.
So I want to describe 3 common things that women will do when they like you. Hopefully with this, you can get a better idea about how to crack this Da Vinci Code of a conundrum known as “women,” and figure out if a particular woman you know really likes you or not.
1. Indirectly Suggesting You Two Hang Out
This is common if you know a woman through a friend, or share a group of the same friends or if you are in a group setting like a class or work. Without being too obvious, women will often subtly suggest that you and the group go out somewhere for drinks or for some get-together. This is very common with women. Women don’t like blatantly asking a guy out (it happens but is rare), so instead they will just suggest that “everyone,” meaning your group of friends, classmates, or co-workers, go out and get together. What she is really saying is “I like you and this is my way of asking you out!”
2. Talking about Sex or Sexual Innuendos
It’s funny that some women are comfortable openly talking about sex with a guy, but yet they are not comfortable asking a guy out. Well, I guess that’s just how society has evolved over time. It historically has and in the future probably will be up to us guys to ask a woman out! (Good thing you read blogs like this.)
If a woman talks about sexual innuendos or makes references/jokes about sex with you, and is comfortable talking about it, she wants you! Even if she doesn’t seem like it 2 minutes later, or becomes indifferent toward you shortly after (again all part of her game). The fact remains that if a woman is thinking and saying aloud sexual acts with you, even completely innocent ones like kissing you or whatever else, she is into you! Do not forget this. The truth of the matter is that she probably has already thought of sex with you before, maybe many times, and now she is at the point where she is comfortable expressing it!
3. Asking About Your Spare Time
I love this one. This is the most subtle one of all, but perhaps the most fascinating. A woman who likes you is going to be thinking of you and her together. Naturally she is going to be thinking of what you are doing when she does not see you and in her mind thinking if you and her would be compatible, or if you would have the time for her.
When a girl asks you about what you like to do when you don’t see her, and takes a genuine interest in your answers, she likes you! Remember the moment this happens, and don’t forget it. As a matter of fact, take advantage of this, and ask her out shortly after!
Use these 3 tips to figure out if a woman you know likes you next time you are with her. If she does any one of these things, mark my words, “She does.” It’s up to you to take the next step and capitalize on this newfound information!
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