After getting her number and texting her, it comes time to set up that first date. I typically never use this word though. It’s that word that-must-not-be-named. Rather, you can tell the woman to hang out, or get together, or catch-up, or meet up, or hang; basically anything that doesn’t manifest that proverbially dinner and a movie idea in her head. Women hate this, and you don’t want her to think that when you hang out, it’s going to be like all the other boring times before. So never use the word “date” when talking about hanging out with her. However for the purposes of this article we shall call it a date.
For your first date, you want to go somewhere fun, somewhere where you both physically do something, and somewhere where you can interact with her at the same time. Anything can do for this. It is important that you choose somewhere that you like to go though. Just like when you go out to meet women, if you go to a place that you’re not comfortable or don’t like going, then you’re not going to have a good time. You must choose wisely! Take her to your favorite place to have fun, and then it will be so much easier to get her to have fun with you.
Taking her to mini-golf, for a couple of drinks at the bar, for a walk in the park, to play pool at billiards, to shoot basketball at the local courts, to Dave and Busters to play any arcade games, to go ice-skating, or to go on the beach if it’s the summertime are some of the best places to go. All these ideas work great. There are many more, and an infinite amount of places to go. But try to remember, no dinner, no lunch, and no movies on the first date. These ideas all suck, and most of the time, you take her out, waste money on food, and then get left with nothing but a full stomach and an empty pocket. Be active, and take her somewhere fun.
Another point to remember is to try to take her somewhere close to home. You do not want to meet up with her an hour away, or even a half-hour away, if you are thinking about having sex with her. It’s going to be so much harder to try to get her to come to your place, if it is incredibly out of the way. Try to be 10-15 minutes away at the most. Somewhere close, so when the time comes you can suggest that you two go back to your place to do something, and she will be more receptive to it. It’s so much less of a commitment for her if it’s close by.
Things that may get her to come back to your place should also be another activity that you can do together. Maybe its playing pool on your new pool table, or shooting hoops outside, or watching something funny on YouTube you were telling her about, or grabbing a couple of drinks after the bar to keep the night going, or watching a movie that you were telling her about. Again anything that sounds like it could be fun to do; will actually be fun to do with her too. And having an activity, is like having a good excuse for you two to go back to your house.
So follow these steps when thinking about your next first date, and you will see your success with women skyrocket. Remember no more boring dates like going to the movies. Keep it fun and entertaining. And keep it close to home so you can easily close the deal when the time comes. And oh yeah, never tell her it’s a “date.”