When learning about game it’s easy to get lost in all the hype surrounding pick-up lines and routines about how to attract women. Most of it doesn’t work however for a very fundamental reason. And that reason is using a catchy or clever pick-up line may seem wise on paper, but in reality it’s not you!
Most people don’t talk that way and most women don’t respond to guys who open that way. They sense a bad (or in your mind, great) pick-up line from a mile away and automatically procure an unfriendly reaction to you.
Game isn’t about trying to be some cool and witty guy who comes up with one-liners and woos women; it’s about being your best possible self. You don’t have to change who you are to be successful with women. All you have to do is tweak a few things and improve upon certain key areas.
If you can think of yourself for a minute as being a really nice car…in fact not just a really nice car, but the absolute best, most beautiful, and flawlessly crafted automobile that’s ever been created! Do you have that picture in your head? Good.
Now the car, or You in this case, are not running as great as you could be right now for various reasons. You’ve been on the road for a number of years, and they’ve taken their toll a bit lately. That’s okay, it happens to everyone. The frames a little rusty in a few areas, it needs a few new parts, and it definitely needs a good tune-up and oil change. Nothing too serious, but certainly a few adjustments to get it back into tip-top-shape.
But we absolutely do not want to trade this impeccable vehicle in! We don’t want to sell this car! And we would be crazy to even think for a second about junking this beautiful machine! No, just a few tweaks here and there and we will be happily on our way. And happily back to being the perfectly crafted vehicle we call You!
See that’s what game is. It’s not about trading in who you are and trying to be or get something else. It’s not about selling ourselves out and finding something else to replace who we are. And it’s most certainly not about giving up and being miserable because we don’t want to take on the challenge of fixing our issues!
Game is about embracing the minor flaws or impediments holding us back, and making a stand against them. It’s about loving who we really are as a whole and then making a resolution to be our best possible selves despite the work and struggle that we may face.
No more pick-up lines, no more gimmicks, and no more routines. Just pure, honest, and natural game from here forth. Be who you really are and don’t try to change yourself anymore. You are good enough just as you are; in fact the absolute best and unique, one-of-a-kind model of You. No one will ever see anyone like you in their life, so embrace that fact and build around yourself. The tools are all there; it’s just up to you to build your life the way you want it to be!
