If you have landed on this page and have looked through my website by now, chances are you probably consider yourself to be a bit shy. Most people in fact consider themselves to be shy, even though they probably aren’t all that shy after all. The truth however is that everyone can be shy at times and this can actually be a good thing. However if you are perpetually shy all the time, that’s okay. I am going to tell you 4 reasons why being shy can actually be a great thing!
1. Shy guys are usually very in-tuned with their feelings and know how to control their emotions. This makes them great thinkers, and academics. In other words, shy people are “wicked” smart. You see they do a lot of self-reflection, and a lot of thinking about every little thing they do. Oftentimes they do this a little too much self-reflection, and this keeps them in their heads. So it is very important to find a good balance of this. When they do, they can get a lot done.
2. Shy guys often have a big heart. Shy guys tend to be introverted by nature, and tend to have fewer friends than most people. So naturally, when they meet someone new whom they really like, they tend to really give that person their all. Shy guys make the most loyal friends out of any type of person. They do not have many friends, but the friends they do have, are very important to them, and also very close to them.
3. Shy guys can actually be more attractive to women in some ways. Not every woman wants a loud, outgoing, and often obnoxious boyfriend. Most women actually just want that down-to-earth, normal, sometimes reserved boyfriend, who can have intelligent conversations with her and be their emotionally for her. Like I mentioned earlier shy guys are very in-tuned with their emotions, which also happens to be a quality that all women have as well.
4. Shy guys can be a challenge to women. Shy guys can actually use their aloofness as a true blessing. If you’re a shy guy, and you want to actually use this to your advantage, it is very easy. Just become a little more confident about yourself and who you are. Accept that you are a bit shy, and actually make that an asset rather than a problem. Instead of being insecure about not being as outgoing as most other men, be proud of the fact, and know that you have other advantages which these men do not have. And that just being a bit reserved in itself can actually drive a woman crazy, as women love to solve a good mystery!
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