When it comes to building a good social circle of entertaining and fun people, and getting a good repertoire of women to hang out and spend your time with it takes a bit of finesse. It’s not as simple as it probably used to be in your high school or even grade school years. These days you probably work 40 hours a week, go to college full-time, or have other responsibilities and tasks which take up the majority of your time.
Finding enough time to enjoy life and meet and share it with good quality friends can be very challenging. But it’s imperative that you set aside some of your time each week and work on getting this area down pat. Having friends, being social, and connecting with other human beings is really what life is all about. But how can you do this you ask? How can you get more friends and meet and hang out with more women?
A great and often little used technique to building up a solid base of women is to be the guy who gets everyone together. And by everyone, I mean you’re friends, your friends’ friends, and all of the other mutual associates you share. Whether it’s through your current friends (even if you only have a couple of people you actually consider friends), your work colleagues, your Facebook friends, or even your Twitter followers.
You want to meet up and schedule events in which you can get everyone together. Most people really don’t want to do this. Most people, especially guys, don’t like taking the initiative and setting things up and planning things. However, by simply being that guy, the guy who is bold enough to be a leader and to organize these types of events, people will respect you. Even if you don’t get a good showing at first and people don’t initially go to your events. If you keep at it, more and more people will start to show up.
Throwing a small party at your house or apartment is a great way to get everyone together. It could even be just a short, couple-hour pre-game before a bunch of you (you and your friends/associates) go out to something else. By simply being the leader and the guy who organizes everything, people will look up to you and want to be around you. If you keep it up, and do this often, you will find more and more people wanting to hang out with you and going to your events/parties.
This is also a great and effective way to get women to come around. Women love going to parties (especially good ones), and if you’re the guy throwing these awesome little get-togethers all the time, your social proof will be through the roof. You will be thought of as being that fun, cool guy who throws those awesome little parties and women will love you!
Being a leader is great for a lot of reasons. This is just one more reason. Organize events and get togethers and you’ll find your social life improving very fast. Not only this, but you’ll find you’re sex life also getting exponentially better. So go ahead, think of a great and fun event to invite your friends, colleagues, or even Facebook friends to right now!