Today, I want to give you 4 proven kissing tips for guys; techniques that will successfully land you that first kiss with a woman. The possibilities here are really endless, but the ones I will share with you are tried and tested, and proven to be effective!
They are literally some of the best kissing tips for guys out there! Remember, the most important thing to actually pulling off a successful first kiss for a guy though is EVERYTHING leading up to the kiss.
For a more detailed description of this please see my other article here: How To Get Your First Kiss. Escalating with a woman and slowly touching her more and more, and getting her comfortable and ready for a deeper level of intimacy (which is what a kiss is) is the key! With that said however, here are the 4 amazing tips for successfully pulling it off:
1. Go For It!
My favorite secret way to get that first kiss…is to simply go for it, and make it seem like nothing, because when you look at the grand scheme of things it really is nothing. “A kiss is just a kiss” as John Lennon once said. Just go for a quick kiss, when you feel like you’ve escalated enough already. You two might be laughing, and you can just shoot in for it, and quickly put your lips on hers, and then go back to doing whatever you were doing before. Almost like nothing happened.
She might laugh, or you might laugh after, and comment on it, but just go about doing what you were doing before, and she will do the same. You can do it again a few minutes later; rinse and repeat. This is the best way, just right to it, like it’s nothing, and then as you do it a few more times later, you can start kissing her longer, and hopefully making out with her.
2. The Hand Holding Technique
Another perfect kissing tips for guys strategy is after properly escalating with a woman on your date, get close to her and put out your hand for her to grab. (By now she will be very comfortable with you because you’ve been escalating and touching her already throughout the date.) If she grabs your hand or goes to hold it, it will be very intimate at this point, and she is basically screaming for you to kiss her, so kiss her!
If she doesn’t immediately grab your hand, grab hers, and hold it. If she grabs yours back, or holds your hand, she is also now ready to be kissed, at which point you also need to kiss her! This is probably the easiest and most non-invasive way to see if you can get that kiss. If she doesn’t grab your hand, just turn it into a funny handshake, and go back to physically escalating in other ways, it just means you may have skipped a couple of steps, or that she just needs a little more time with you to be ready.
3. Kiss Her Cheeks
Another cool way to get that first kiss is to give her a hug for whatever reason, and kiss her left cheek, and then slowly go to her right cheek, and see if she wants to kiss your lips. This is taught by many pick-up artists as a good way to kiss a girl the same day you meet her. By being so close to her, and by having your lips so close to hers, and kissing her face, you are making her very excited, and hopefully, she is receptive to you being near her face. If she is, you will know because if she isn’t, she will back away from you, and totally not be into it.
If she is however, she will just stand her ground, and welcome it, or even lean into you, and basically try to kiss you. Either way, this is a pretty low risk move as well, and many times it works great for getting that first kiss.
4. Make A Bet
The final thing you can do to get that first kiss, is to make a bet, when you are doing something, like playing a game of pool, or mini-golf, or darts, or whatever it may be. Just kind of laugh and say “we need to make a bet” (when you two are playing something). And say “I’ll’ come up with one if I win and you come up with one if you win.” And naturally you say “If I win, I get to kiss you.” And she’ll kind of laugh or whatever, and then say what her bet is if she wins. And then you have to play like you’ve never played before, and absolutely smoke her! This is important; you have to win the bet!
When you do, after the game, just kind of smile and laugh, and say “Hey a bet’s a bet,” and go in for the kiss. She is now ready for you to kiss her at this moment, otherwise she would have never agreed to the bet in the first place. So don’t be shy, and go claim your prize. You deserve it!
Use any one of these tips and techniques to be successful with your first kiss. They all work in some capacity. Try them all and find out which ones are best for you and your style. Using them will greatly increase your chances of being successful with your kissing. So go out now and find a woman worth kissing! Now you know exactly what to do!
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