If you’re a man, there’s a great chance you’ve spent some time with a huge crush on that one woman.
Perhaps she is tall and brunette, with legs for days. Maybe she’s short, blonde, and busty. Whatever you’re into, picture her now.
Not only do her physical features turn you on, but she also has a great personality and a really cool life that you’d love to be a part of.
The only problem is, she doesn’t feel the same way about you.
She may like you as a friend, think of you as more of a “brother” to her, or worst of all, use you as a shoulder to cry on during hard times.
To help you avoid this horrible situation, I have assembled 3 of my best tips for boosting sexual tension and blasting past the friend zone. Check it, homie.
1. Smirk Instead Of Smiling
Now don’t get me wrong here, smiling is great. It gives off a positive energy and shows that you’re having a good time. That being said, smirking is the charming, distractingly-handsome, badass cousin of smiling, and it flips a switch in a woman’s brain that tells her that you are bold and unafraid.
Combined with strong eye contact and confident body language, the smirk is a deadly weapon in your seduction arsenal.
2. Playfully Disqualify Her
One great way to make her want you is to playfully suggest that she can’t have you.
For example, make up a reason that you could never date her. Tell her why she’s not your type. Be difficult. Be sassy. And during all of this, keep tip #1 in mind.
Telling her no will ratchet up the sexual tension, and turn up the heat between you two, especially if you’re both having fun in the interaction. If she playfully punches you on the arm, you’re on the right track.
Sprinkling in a few fun disqualifications in combination with a genuine curiosity about her is a recipe for huge amounts of sexual attraction.
3. Use Physical Touch To Escalate
Contrary to what you thought in 3rd grade, girls don’t actually have cooties. If you touch them, you’re (*disclaimer: most likely) not going to get a disease, so when interacting with them, don’t be afraid to make physical contact.
Briefly touch her arm, give her a high-five, or some other small natural gesture that two people who aren’t afraid of each other would do to each other. As you get more comfortable with each other, you can increase the duration of your touch and start getting a little more physical. This is the easiest way to get to a first kiss.
*HUGE DISCLAIMER: when escalating with touch, don’t blatantly grope her or assume she’ll just “be ok” with you grabbing her ass. This is not cool at all, and could get you in a lot of trouble.
That being said, if you start getting touchy with each other, and she is accepting of your advances, then you may go ahead and continue. Just use your head, dude.
So there you have it. 3 ways to boost sexual tension and blast past the friend zone. Put them on your fridge, post them on your night-stand, or put a note in that fancy new iPhone of yours.
Comment below and let us know of your successes.
