Do you want to know the number one secret to being successful with women? Do you want to discover the absolute greatest tip and piece of advice that I can possibly give you? Well listen up, I’m going to share it with you!
The number one, most important tip, and most effective secret to being successful with women is…drum roll please…louder…just little more…okay, thank you…it’s being YOURSELF!
Now wait, before you get upset at me for giving such a generalized and standard answer to this awesome headline, let me explain…
I don’t mean by being yourself to sound like your grandmother when she tells you to “just be yourself and girls will love you Johnny.” But to be honest, if you really listened to Granny, you might be better off. By being yourself, you do not want to be nice and quiet and reserved and think women will like you because you are naturally introverted and this is what you are naturally comfortable doing.
This is not the advice I am giving.
What I am telling you, is to be your best self! By being your best self you are being the person you are when you are at your absolute finest. You see, we all go through our ups and downs throughout the day. We all have our highs and ours lows and we all have times where we are incredibly social, incredibly funny, incredibly charismatic, and incredibly awesome! From the shyest guy in the world to the most charismatic guy, everyone goes through this range of emotions.
By being your best self around women, you choose to be the person you are when you are at your peak moments throughout the day. Even if those peak moments are only for a few short minutes, that’s the person you want to be!
So right now think of when you are at your best. If that’s when you are with your best friends, laughing, playing video games, joking around and telling slap-stick stories, think of that. If it’s when you are in a fun class with your schoolmates and for whatever reason have a blast in there and you feel like “The Man” every time you go to this class, think of this. If it’s when you are with a family member or relative and you just feel like you are so much more outgoing, charismatic, and comfortable when you talk to them, think of that. If you get this feeling of being on top of the world when you are by yourself watching T.V. or singing or exercising, or anything when you’re alone, that’s okay too. Think of that.
So now after you think of this time when you are at your finest, where you feel completely unstoppable and totally euphoric, engrain this feeling into your mind. And next time you are around women, be this person!
Don’t be afraid to be outgoing. Don’t be afraid to be charismatic. Don’t be afraid to be loud. Don’t be afraid to be goofy or silly. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. Don’t be afraid to say something inappropriate. Don’t be afraid to mess up.
If you can truly jump into this role, a role that is your best self, and a role that you get into naturally in other parts of your day, talking to women will be easy. When you are your best self, everything is easy. Words easily flow from your tongue, charisma emanates, confidence exudes, your body language is great: Everything just clicks!
This is the secret to success! If you can, without fear and without doubt, implement the emotions when you are with women of that of your best self, you will be wildly successful with them.
That’s it. That’s all there is to it. That’s the best secret to having great success in your dating life. Do this one thing and start seeing your dating life improve right now!