Being goofy is actually very alluring when it comes to meeting and attracting women. It displays such a great amount of confidence from a man when he can comfortably act silly in front of others. You see, most guys are not comfortable being themselves or being vulnerable when they go out, so instead they adopt a serious persona and instead of being exciting and fun they become stoic and boring.
I want to share with you 3 under-utilized ways of building attraction when you go out at night. These 3 tips, although a bit goofy and perhaps ridiculous in some instances, are perfect for letting women know you’re a fun and confident man!
1. Use Pet Names
Using pet names on women is great for getting them to be comfortable with you. Most guys are too formal when they initially meet women. They talk to women oftentimes as if they’re talking to their boss or as if they are applying for some highly-esteemed profession. By quickly talking to her more casually and talking to her like you would one of your friends, she will feel much more at ease with you.
It’s okay to call her “Dude” or “Sweetheart” or “Bro” or “Kiddo” or “Toots” or anything else that comes to mind. All of these nouns elicit a playful banter back and forth. She might playfully call you a jerk for calling her a “dude,” or she might playfully slap your arm for calling her “sweetheart,” but at the same time, she will love it! You’re doing what most guys are too afraid to do, and she will love this!
2. Don’t Be Afraid To Wink
A guy who can wink at a woman is a guy with unbelievable confidence. As stupid as that last statement may sound, it’s true! If a guy (who is one hundred percent sober) can look a woman in the eyes and then wink at her, he is completely self-assured.
There’s just something about the wink that is so powerful. Perhaps it’s the social clout surrounding it. Or maybe it’s the fact that a wink oftentimes has sexual innuendoes attached to it. Whatever the case, winks can be very helpful.
If you do want to start using this, however, start practicing in front of a mirror first. Make sure you get your wink down before you start using it in public! You don’t want to go around looking like Popeye when you’re trying to attract women!
3. Come Up With A Funny Handshake Or High-Five
Instead of shaking hands with a woman you’re introducing yourself to, give her a funny handshake that you’ve come up with.
Try creating a goofy handshake and show her how to do it. It can be some variation of The Dap, or some other silly handshake you can think up or borrow from someone else. The point isn’t to come up with a new, revolutionary greeting between two people, it’s to be a goofy and funny person, who immediately makes women laugh and immediately allows her to enjoy herself with you!
Don’t get too hung up on these 3 tips. They are meant to be light-hearted and fun. However, the next time you go out, if you do want to get yourself into a playful and fun mood when you are around women, try out one or all of these ideas. My guess is that the women you meet will laugh when you do them, and then shortly after they’ll love spending their time with you!